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Single Mom about to become Homeless - PLEASE GOD HELP ME!

NEED A MIRACLE started this conversation

I am a single mother of a beautiful 10 yr old daughter, who has no idea that very soon, she will be forced from the home she has grown up in, to live in her mom's car with her mom. In approx. 2 weeks time, I lost my job, received an eviction notice, my auto insurance will be cancelled (5 days left to pay), which means my car will be repossessed as it's financed, my credit cards are maxed out, late, and over the limit, my credit score (which I struggled and worked so very hard for) went from "Excellent" to "Poor", and the love of my life has left me. Social Services have told me that there is no assistance what-so-ever available for my family. No medical, no emergency housing, nothing. I was told it was due to budget cuts. I have called every where I could find, and am told the same thing each time - "I'm sorry, there just isn't anything we can do to help you."  I receive no child support (never have) and have absolutely no where else to turn. I am now down to absolutely nothing. I just used the last bit of change I could scrounge up to buy some cereal and milk. I have been on my own and have supported myself since I was 14 years old. I have always worked hard, volunteered my time, and tried my best to provide a stable life for my daughter and myself. I understand there are ups and downs in life, and that everything makes you stronger, but this is killing my soul. No matter how bad my life has been, I've always kept my faith and tried my best to stay positive and "keep on keepin' on", but now I'm becoming so weak. I feel like I'm falling down a dark black hole and trying to grab hold of anything, but just keep falling as there isn't anything to grab. I'm afraid that once the sherrifs notice goes on my door to evacuate my home and we are homeless, that social services will then take my daughter from me. She still isn't even aware I lost my job. I've hid all of this from her to try and protect her. She's 10 yrs old and innocent and I hate myself because of all of this. I pray to God everyday and night for a miracle. Please, please, from the depth of my soul HELP ME! 
 
 

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myheartgoesout2damamas
 in response to angel8462...   i am still in the situation angel. do you have family in the area? a good resource is singlemom.com regarding housing. your child can attend the same school. federal funds are set aside for homeless education. visit national center for homeless education so you are equipped with your child's education rights - not pushed around
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angel8462
Am also in the same situation. I Pray everyday for my daughter and myself also this is all too familiar. Don't know whats happened to everyone in this world, no one seems to care about anyone but themselves. May GOD BLESS You. We all have to keep the FAITH.
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isidro

keep the fath ok?

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Helpfulhannah1

First check out the eviction and make sure it is legal. Go to the eviction hearings as it will buy you atleast ten to 20 days depending on the situation. Contact the ministerial association in your community. They can tell you which churches help with all of the above. Check out stimulus money and see if you qualify for any of it. There is money for first time buyers. I don't know what the requirements are. If you can't find work start your own. Clean houses or whatever you can do. Make sure you get your name on section 8 housing. There's a long list but you need to start somewhere. Sign up with www.freecharitycars sometimes they help with insurance and a one time payment, if not when your car gets repoed you have a chance to get a donated car. It's a wonderful site and everyone is in the same boat. Go to your local vocational rehabilitation office and see if you qualify as a displaced worker. If you qualify for their program they have various areas of help. You may have a waiting list. What state are you in.  Talk to every charity organization in your community, you can get a list from the chamber of commerce. If you belong to a church go to them they may know of a job or housing. If not you might want to join a church for the support and comfort that they will give both you and your daughter. Sometimes you have to find others who are in the same boat and share housing and expenses. If you have a college in your town they post roomates on the bulleting board. Give me more details on your community and I will see what I can think of. Good Luck and God Bless do the eviction hearing though that's important.

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lemonytea

I am in same situation..the house I am in is barely livable.I am getting evicted iN a couple days.The rent is ridiculous because everyone seems to think the oil boom is still going strong.The landlord told me he could care less if my kids and I live under a rock.The local shelter has one tiny room available in the attic so that's where we will be staying until I can find a job and my ex will start caring about his children as much as his 19 year old girlfriend...sigh..I'm sick of this crap!!!

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normajboat
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kirgie70

I am in her same situation with 3 children, have no idea how long they will give us to move once I go to court to be evicted? I am so scared to be homeless & it is 3 weeks before CHristmas & very coold out!  :(

 

I cry myself to sleep

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flwybmom2

I pray that you find a job, and don't go homeless. I pray your little girl never has to feel the harsh reality of the united states "Me, myself, and I" attitude. Everyone is so about being independant that when trouble comes along it is tremendously hard not only to ask for help BUT TO RECEIVE IT is so ridicously sad.-----There is no such thing as real help.

I get $400.montly in child support.

I went for assistance....The law is that if you want to receive cash assistance #1) You must forfeit your child support to the state in which you live.

#2) Then upon elgibility requirements and a bunch of nonsense ......I WAS TOLD THEY TAKE THE $400.00 AND IN RETURN MY CHILDREN WOULD RECEIVE A TOTAL OF $323.00 A MONTH!!!!!!!!

WTF!!!! How is receiving less money susposed to help??????

Myself and my 3 children live in this same place as "need a Miracle"......Flowery branch.

WELL GUESS WHAT I AM ABOUT TO BE HOMELESS TOO!!!!! I have left here 2 weeks and me and my 3 children have no where to go. Housing has a freeze on it mandated by the state. The city of Gainesville has a hiring freeze as well.

I am an honor roll student in the medical field.... I am trained to work in the medical field and I can't get a job!!!!

My situation is almost identical.  Georgia State help does NOT exist!!! 

 

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eggplant

This is such a tragic situation.

 I am an English man with an american girlfriend with 2 children. She has just lost her job and it seems like there is no help from the state, which to me is astounding.

In britain we believe everyone should have a safety net to help them through the tough times. we argue as to how much it should be, but in general we all accept that these are people we are taling about. And people will always be more important than things, businesses or money.

 So I pay a little more tax than you, and people like my girlfriend can get a little help with rent, and food, and fuel and  medicine.

I dont know how the system works in the states, and I really wish I were there to help her. Im scared for her children. Please, if anyone knows what would happenif she loses her flat. please post it here quickly.

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alma562

pleas tell us how we can help. ur not alone

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LosDaddy

I feel you pain and I am praying for you. I lost my job as well and am so afraid, especially with this economy. My faith is being tested and I know God wil take us through this, please never lose faith.

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TUTTY

hi my name is laquette i.m 25 years old have 5 kids and also will be homeless at the end of the month due to my land lord .i feel ur pain and know what ur going threw i,m still woundering how i,m going to get by and school around the coner my heart and preys are with u

 

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GiveMeFaith
My prayers are with you and your precious daughter. God KNOWS, I WISH I could help,as I;myself has been in this matter before....
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Jojo71173
 in response to Sunchick...   

Pretty much the same thing that happend to me,I just have to much pride to ever tell anyone,but I so can feel her situation.

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Sunchick

What happened to this woman?

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